Ending The Cycle Of Abuse How I Overcame Childhood Abuse And Became A Good Father How To Raise Great Kids edition by Monte Perron Religion Spirituality eBooks
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I wrote this book to share a mindset that has helped me reach a goal that I set long before my first child was born. That goal was to be a good father and have the evidence of well adjusted, respectful, engaged, goal oriented, self-governing, assertive, grateful, and considerate kids. To sum it up I wanted to be an effective father and end up with great kids. That was no small task considering the fact that I was a victim of child abuse. This is a book about overcoming. For those who also experienced an abusive childhood it will provide hope. Those without that to overcome will also be encouraged. All readers will be empowered. It is a win –win for parent and child alike!
I often get compliments on the behavior of my children. For example, people say they are polite, or engaging, or thankful, or assertive yet humble. I get positive remarks about their hand shake, their people skills, and their work ethic to name a few. Am I bragging? Yes, but I am not doing so because I think I am super special. I am just repeating what I have heard. More often than not I respond to those compliments with this statement – “I purchased the good child option at the hospital.” Of course, I say that in jest, but the entire time it is coming out of my mouth I am thinking that any father can do what I have done.
My kids are “easy to love,” and have been their entire life. They are my credentials. In fact, the way they have turned out is the very reason you should read this book. I wrote this book to empower fathers. I was an abused child and I share some of my story as an encouragement. For the person who also suffered an abusive childhood this book will be a beacon of hope. Anybody who had a great childhood will also be greatly encouraged because they have way less to overcome.
There is value in this book. Some of that value is in the form of tactics that I have used successfully. It is also present in the hope of overcoming which is a common theme throughout the book. The greatest value is found in an attitude that will empower fathers to be more effective. I wrote this book in hopes that grandparents would give it to their children to help those that they love. I want my own kids to read it for exactly that reason.
Ending The Cycle Of Abuse How I Overcame Childhood Abuse And Became A Good Father How To Raise Great Kids edition by Monte Perron Religion Spirituality eBooks
I loved the title because it showed that you can still be okay and move on with your life despite your childhood trauma. However............What I liked:
The author failing many times after deciding to try to no tallow the past influence his present and future. This was so realistic and authentic that I was able to relate with him when it came to walking on the road of recovery.
What I didn’t like:
How he moved on from feeling victimized to moving on with his life.
But Ayah, you are contraindicating yourself?
No!
What I mean is that there was a time when he was trying to get over his past, which I related with.
But there was a time where he decided that he can get over by just saying that he is what he sets himself to be. Which is true to an extent, but no just so instantaneously.
The author said that once he accepted Jesus Christ as his savior and told himself “ That he doesn’t have depression”, things got better. It was a bit unrealistic for me.
This method could be how he started his real recovery, but it definitely can’t be how he got over everything just by acknowledging the statements above!
It wasn’t the fact that he said Jesus Christ because I love seeing people feeling and being stronger via religion, even if I am not a part of that religion. It is very empowering for me to see people hold on to God during their "hard times". But the way it was described in the book made feel like PTSD can be vanquished instantly if you say that you can get over a mental illness + convince yourself that you don’t have it, and know that you will be saved and forgiven. Like I said, those are good starting points, but they don’t take you from point A to z in a glimpse of an eye.
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Ending The Cycle Of Abuse How I Overcame Childhood Abuse And Became A Good Father How To Raise Great Kids edition by Monte Perron Religion Spirituality eBooks Reviews
The title is a preparation for an awesome ride, This book is mountain moving and alarming. The story outlined in this book will send you running for Klenex. This gentleman overcame so many obstacles to become an awesome DAD. I was drawn to this title originally because i felt I too had a rough childhood and wanted better for my kids. This book made me realize I had a not so bad childhood after all. This book can change your perspective on pain and turmoil. If you dont love your kids closer after this book then you are not human. I received this book free and feel like I am now obligated to make a donation. I am inspired, motivated and now obligated to alter my views. Thank you Monte!! This book was easily downloaded via . The book is long but very engaging, you wont want to stop reading this book,I still have some chapters to read even as I write this review.
This is a MUST READ if you are a father or expecting to be a father. There are pages and pages –(organized in short easy to read chapters) of ways to build a firm foundation for your children’s life. It will help you to relate to and build a relationship with your children that will last a lifetime. After birth, every child should be sent home from the hospital with this book. Even better, when a man finds out that a child of his is on the way, he should get a copy -read and study it. This will teach you how to be a Daddy! It will help provide you with tools to get rid of junk in your own life and it will prepare you for fatherhood. It will give you a tools to develop a long-term approach to raising kids that will make their life (and yours) better and more rewarding. It will give you strategies to help your children overcome struggles (we ALL have them) and start out strong. This is a book about giving your children real perspective in life. Overcoming the struggles in life is really about having the correct perspective and this book helps to point that out!
This book is an example of a true contribution to society. Every one of us should take time to share our lives with others and do it in a way that will make their lives better. We would be a much better society, if we took time to show our struggles and how those struggles were overcome. We tend to spend so much time hiding our struggles and pretending to be more perfect than any of us could even dream to be. This is a REAL book- about REAL struggles and a REAL story about overcoming those struggles. This is WAY better than the usual “self-help” book. The usual “self-help” book – is written by an “expert” who has studied people with problems and applied an academic solution to those problems. Now – don’t get me wrong – those books have their place and have helped people. This book is in a different league. This book is a real life account of the ups and downs of life and in so many ways, if read and applied, it will help you to avoid pit-falls, - or if you do find yourself in the pit , you can learn how to get out of the pit – sooner! Read it once – to wake you up! Read it the second time to learn life lessons. Dog ear the pages, take notes and use it as a “Daddy Reference Manual”. This is expedited wisdom folks! I did not have the abuse in my life that Monte faced, however all of us have things to overcome. This book will help – no matter what struggles you have or have had.
I have worked with many young men who grew up with no male role model, or a bad example of one. They all express hopelessness in their future, expectations of turning out like their biological fathers, and feeling like they are expected to be bad because of their pasts. I would love to give them this book to read. It is something they can identify with, and a voice of hope. As a female who has not gone through all they have, it is hard for them to trust someone like me when I say I believe there is a hope for them. As an advocate, and a counseling intern, I really appreciate this author for giving a voice to something I can't speak to from experience. Sometimes reality is much more therapeutic to read than clinical, impersonal, directive text.
I was referred to this book from AMZreviewtrader and am grateful I took the time to look at it. Thank you.
I loved the title because it showed that you can still be okay and move on with your life despite your childhood trauma. However............
What I liked
The author failing many times after deciding to try to no tallow the past influence his present and future. This was so realistic and authentic that I was able to relate with him when it came to walking on the road of recovery.
What I didn’t like
How he moved on from feeling victimized to moving on with his life.
But Ayah, you are contraindicating yourself?
No!
What I mean is that there was a time when he was trying to get over his past, which I related with.
But there was a time where he decided that he can get over by just saying that he is what he sets himself to be. Which is true to an extent, but no just so instantaneously.
The author said that once he accepted Jesus Christ as his savior and told himself “ That he doesn’t have depression”, things got better. It was a bit unrealistic for me.
This method could be how he started his real recovery, but it definitely can’t be how he got over everything just by acknowledging the statements above!
It wasn’t the fact that he said Jesus Christ because I love seeing people feeling and being stronger via religion, even if I am not a part of that religion. It is very empowering for me to see people hold on to God during their "hard times". But the way it was described in the book made feel like PTSD can be vanquished instantly if you say that you can get over a mental illness + convince yourself that you don’t have it, and know that you will be saved and forgiven. Like I said, those are good starting points, but they don’t take you from point A to z in a glimpse of an eye.
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